I look at my life and don't recognise who I've become. Somewhere along the way, I got lost.
I don't know what I want
Work, relationships, the future. Everything feels unclear. I used to know. Now I don't.
I feel like I'm living someone else's life
Going through the motions. Doing what's expected. But none of it feels like me.
I don't like who I've become
It's not one big thing. It's a slow drift away from myself — and I don't know how to find my way back.
You didn't lose yourself overnight. And you won't find yourself through thinking.
Here's what usually happens underneath identity loss.
You adapted — and lost yourself in the process
We learn early to be who others need us to be. Over time, the adapted self becomes the only self we know. The real one goes quiet — but it never disappears.
The body remembers who you are, even when the mind doesn't
Your authentic self isn't gone. It's stored in sensation, in what moves you, in what makes your body contract or open. The body holds the map back to yourself.
Trying to think your way back to yourself doesn't work
You can't analyze your way into feeling like yourself. Identity reconnection happens through experience — through the body, not through more thinking.
The "lost" feeling is a signal, not a verdict
Feeling lost isn't evidence that something is wrong with you. It's your deeper self asking to be found. That discomfort is the beginning of the way back.
You don't need to figure yourself out. You need to feel your way back.
Certified somatic practitioner, trained in body-based and dance therapy methods
4+ years experience in movement practice, retreats, dance & art therapy approach
Founder of LINA, an app for emotional and creative wellbeing. 70,000+ downloads worldwide
Now offering 1:1 somatic sessions to go deeper with individuals
What people say after their free check-in
Amanda K.
Austin, Texas (USA)
I kept asking myself 'what is wrong with me' for two years. Therapists helped me understand my patterns but I still didn't feel like myself. In one session with Palina something clicked in my body. Like I remembered something I'd forgotten I knew.
Claire B.
Brisbane, Australia
I'd been living on autopilot for so long I didn't even notice anymore. Palina helped me find a place in my body that still knew who I was — before all the roles and responsibilities. That sounds abstract but the feeling was completely concrete. I left that session with a direction I hadn't had in a long time.
Lauren H.
New York, USA
Honestly I was skeptical. I figured it would be a sales pitch, but Palina actually did a short body practice with me and I noticed things I'd never noticed before. At the end she told me what she saw and it was so accurate it was almost uncomfortable. I signed up for her sessions that same day.
A few questions before we meet
I read every application personally and respond within 24 hours
This session is free.
FAQ
Yes. Therapy works primarily through language and thought. This works through the body — where anxiety actually lives. Many people find body-based work reaches places talk therapy couldn't.
We start with the body. It always knows something the mind doesn't. Even if you have no words, no clarity, no direction — your body is already showing us where to begin.
It's a body-based approach to emotional release. Instead of just talking about what you feel, we notice where you feel it — and work with that directly.
No. This is a body-based wellness session. I'm a somatic movement facilitator, not a licensed therapist. If you're in crisis or need clinical support, I'll be upfront about that.
Just breathe and notice. If you feel comfortable we may also move, shake and vocalise.
Because I want to make sure this is the right fit for both of us before we go deeper. If it helps, great. If it's not for you — no hard feelings.
After the session I'll share what I noticed — and if there's a way I can support you further, I'll tell you about it. No pressure, no surprise invoices.