In relationships, at parties, with friends. The loneliness is there anyway. That's the hardest part.
I feel like no one really sees me
People are around, but the real me — the one underneath — feels invisible. Unreachable.
I don't know how to be with myself
When it's quiet, I get restless. Being alone feels uncomfortable in a way I can't explain.
I feel like I don't belong anywhere
Not quite here, not quite there. Always slightly outside of things, even when I'm in the middle of them.
Loneliness is rarely about other people. It's about the distance from yourself.
Here's what's usually underneath.
Disconnection from your own inner world
When we lose touch with our own feelings, needs, and sensations — we become strangers to ourselves. And a person who doesn't know themselves can't truly connect with others.
A self that learned to hide
If being fully yourself wasn't safe — in childhood, in past relationships, in any environment — you learned to present a version of yourself. The real one went quiet. That gap is what loneliness actually is.
Looking for connection outside before finding it inside
We search for someone who "gets us" — but the one who needs to get us first is ourselves. External connection can't fill an internal void.
The body holds the bridge back
Reconnecting with physical sensation — breath, movement, presence — is how we find our way back to ourselves. And from there, back to real contact with others.
The loneliness ends when you come back to yourself.
Certified somatic practitioner, trained in body-based and dance therapy methods
4+ years experience in movement practice, retreats, dance & art therapy approach
Founder of LINA, an app for emotional and creative wellbeing. 70,000+ downloads worldwide
Now offering 1:1 somatic sessions to go deeper with individuals
What people say after their free check-in
Jess T.
Seattle, USA
I'm in a relationship, I have friends and a full life. And I've felt completely alone for years. That one session changed how I understood everything. I'm still working through it, but for the first time I know what I'm actually working on.
Claire B.
Brisbane, Australia
I always felt like I was on the outside of rooms even when I was in the middle of them. We found something in my body that had been bracing for a long time — like I was always slightly guarded, even with myself. Something released in that session.
Lauren H.
New York, USA
Honestly I was skeptical. I figured it would be a sales pitch, but Palina actually did a short body practice with me and I noticed things I'd never noticed before. At the end she told me what she saw and it was so accurate it was almost uncomfortable. I signed up for her sessions that same day.
A few questions before we meet
I read every application personally and respond within 24 hours
This session is free.
FAQ
Yes — and this is actually one of the most common things that comes up. Loneliness inside a relationship is often about disconnection from yourself, not just from your partner. That's exactly what we work with.
It's a body-based approach to emotional release. Instead of just talking about what you feel, we notice where you feel it — and work with that directly.
No. This is a body-based wellness session. I'm a somatic movement facilitator, not a licensed therapist. If you're in crisis or need clinical support, I'll be upfront about that.
Just breathe and notice. If you feel comfortable we may also move, shake and vocalise.
Because I want to make sure this is the right fit for both of us before we go deeper. If it helps, great. If it's not for you — no hard feelings.
After the session I'll share what I noticed — and if there's a way I can support you further, I'll tell you about it. No pressure, no surprise invoices.